David and His Nephew Joab – Part 12: Idolatry

2 Samuel 15:1-6

And it came to pass after this, that Absalom prepared him chariots and horses, and fifty men to run before him. And Absalom rose up early, and stood beside the way of the gate: and it was so, that when any man that had a controversy came to the king for judgment, then Absalom called unto him, and said, Of what city art thou? And he said, Thy servant is of one of the tribes of Israel. And Absalom said unto him, See, thy matters are good and right; but there is no man deputed of the king to hear thee. Absalom said moreover, Oh that I were made judge in the land, that every man which hath any suit or cause might come unto me, and I would do him justice! And it was so, that when any man came nigh to him to do him obeisance, he put forth his hand, and took him, and kissed him. And on this manner did Absalom to all Israel that came to the king for judgment: so Absalom stole the hearts of the men of Israel.

MATTHEW HENRY (1662-1714): Absalom is no sooner restored to his place at court than he aims to be in the throne. He that was unhumbled under his troubles became insufferably proud when they were over.

JOHN TRAPP (1601-1699): Pride buddeth, and ambition rideth without reins. Absalom will needs have a train like a prince and successor to the kingdom, so to dazzle the eyes of the common people, who are apt to judge of inward worth by outward spendour, and to dote upon glittering shows, as they did upon Herod, Acts 12:21,22.

ALEXANDER MacLAREN (1826-1910): “Plain living and high thinking” did not suit Absalom; and he had gauged the popular taste accurately enough in setting up his chariot with its fifty runners. That was a show something like a king, and much more approved than David’s simplicity. Absalom begins by dazzling people with ostentatious splendour.

MATTHEW HENRY: The people desired a king like the nations; and such Absalom will be, appearing in pomp and magnificence, above what had been seen in Jerusalem. No man’s conduct could be more condescending, while his heart was as proud as Lucifer’s. Ambitious projects are often carried on by a show of humility, Colossians 2:23. He knew what a grace it puts upon greatness to be affable and courteous, and how much it wins upon common people: had he been sincere in it, it would have been his praise; but to fawn upon the people that he might betray them was abominable hypocrisy. “He croucheth, and humbleth himself, to draw them into his net,” Psalm 10:9,10.

THOMAS COKE (1747-1814): On a slight hearing, when one party only represented his case, Absalom flattered him with certain success in his cause, if there were anyone deputed to hear him, but insinuates the negligent administration of justice, and how much the land suffered for want of an active upright magistrate; intimating how happy it would be for people if he were judge, when every man might expect speedy redress and equitable decisions. Such pretensions easily sunk down into unthinking minds, and flattered them with halcyon days under his administration: and his familiarity and condescension to the lowest of the people soon won their hearts; for he shook them by the hand, embraced them as if a friend or a brother, and scrupled not to stoop, however low, in order to climb into the throne.

ALEXANDER MacLAREN: How old—and yet how modern! We live in a country where everybody is an ‘elector’ of some sort, and candidates are plentiful. See the same things going on, in a little different dress, before our eyes.

THE EDITOR: There is nothing new under the sun. Absalom was the “law and order candidate,” playing on people’s emotions by reaffirming their pent-up feelings of being unjustly treated by the government—just as he considered himself to have been “ill-treated” by David; thus, though a wealthy and privileged royal prince, he could style himself as being “one of them”—and that he, their brave champion, was “fighting for them,” since he alone understood their pain and was filled with empathy for their grievances. Absalom was the quintessential demagogue, seeking the support of ordinary people by emotionally appealing to their desires and prejudices, rather than by rational argument.

THOMAS COKE: Zeal for the public good, and redress of grievances, is often the dust thrown into the eyes of the populace to conceal the projects of ambition. They who court popularity by low condescensions are no sooner in power, than they throw off the mask and play the tyrant over a deluded people.

ALEXANDER MacLAREN: There was, no doubt, truth in the charge he made against David of negligence in his judicial and other duties. Ever since his great sin, the king seems to have been stunned into inaction. The heavy sense of demerit had taken the buoyancy out of him, and, though forgiven, he could never regain the elastic energy of purer days.

A. W. PINK (1886-1952): A strange passiveness seems to have crept over David, and to have continued until his flight before Absalom. The narrative is singularly silent about him. He appears to be paralyzed by the consciousness of his past sins: he originated nothing. He dared not punish Amnon, and could only weep when he heard of Absalom’s crime. He weakly craved for the return of the Absalom, but could not bring himself to send for him till Joab urged it. A flash of his old kingliness appeared for a moment in his refusal to see his son, but even that vanished when Joab chose to insist that Absalom should return to the court…At every step he was dogged by the consequences of his own wrong-doings, even though God had pardoned his sins.

THE EDITOR: Yet there is something deeper in David’s silence while Absalom was preparing the ground for his subsequent rebellion. Absalom stole the hearts of the men of Israel, but he had been already installed as the beloved idol of his father’s heart.

THOMAS COKE: Probably David himself was proud of the figure his son Absalom made, and, by connivance, encouraged his ambitious views. Parents who indulge their children in pomp and pride, know not the injury they do them and themselves.

THOMAS SCOTT (1747-1821): Children are always uncertain comforts, but indulged children surely prove trials to pious parents, whose foolish fondness induces them to neglect their duty to God.

C. H. SPURGEON (1834-1892): The essence of idolatry is this—to love anything better than God—in some form or other this great sin is the main mischief in the heart of man. And even in saved men this is one of the developments of remaining corruption. We may very easily make an idol of anything and in many different ways. No doubt many mothers and fathers make idols of their children.

THE EDITOR: But what was Absalom’s idol?

A. W. PINK: Absalom in his lifetime had taken and reared up for himself a pillar, which is in the king’s dale: for he said, I have no son to keep my name in remembrance: and he called the pillar after his own name: and it is called unto this day, Absalom’s place, ” 2 Samuel 18:18. There are two references to “the king’s dale:” in the one, Melchizedek brought forth that which symbolized Christ, Genesis 14:17,18; in the other, Absalom erected a monument to himself.

JOHN ANGELL JAMES (1785-1869): Self is the great idol which is the rival of God.

MATTHEW HENRY: The pillar designed for Absalom’s glory, but proved Absalom’s folly.

MATTHEW POOLE (1624-1679): This was the effect of his pride and vain-glory.

THE EDITOR: The Hebrew word translated as Absalom’s “place,” literally means Absalom’s “hand.” Indeed, in the works of our own hands, we either serve God and His glory, or ourselves and our own glory. And what great heart idol did Joab cherish? Almost everything Joab did, seems motivated by one constant consideration: being captain of the host of Israel—and anyone who threatened Joab’s idol did so at their peril.

JOHN CALVIN (1509-1564): Every one of us is, from his mother’s womb, expert in inventing idols—man’s nature, so to speak, is a perpetual idol factory.

CHARLES SIMEON (1759-1836): Let us examine ourselves carefully on this.

D. L. MOODY (1837-1899): Whatever you love more than God, is your idol.

 

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David and His Nephew Joab – Part 11: Narcissistic Vanity

2 Samuel 14:25,26; 2 Samuel 14:28-33

In all Israel there was none to be so much praised as Absalom for his beauty: from the sole of his foot even to the crown of his head there was no blemish in him. And when he polled his head, (for it was at every year’s end that he polled it: because the hair was heavy on him, therefore he polled it:) he weighed the hair of his head at two hundred shekels after the king’s weight.

So Absalom dwelt two full years in Jerusalem, and saw not the king’s face.

Therefore Absalom sent for Joab, to have sent him to the king; but he would not come to him: and when he sent again the second time, he would not come. Therefore he said unto his servants, See, Joab’s field is near mine, and he hath barley there; go and set it on fire. And Absalom’s servants set the field on fire. Then Joab arose, and came to Absalom unto his house, and said unto him, Wherefore have thy servants set my field on fire? And Absalom answered Joab, Behold, I sent unto thee, saying, Come hither, that I may send thee to the king, to say, Wherefore am I come from Geshur? it had been good for me to have been there still: now therefore let me see the king’s face; and if there be any iniquity in me, let him kill me.

So Joab came to the king, and told him: and when he had called for Absalom, he came to the king, and bowed himself on his face to the ground before the king: and the king kissed Absalom.

G. CAMPBELL MORGAN (1863-1945): We have a remarkable picture of Absalom, evidently a handsome man of physical perfection.

ROBERT HAWKER (1753-1827): Amidst all the beauty of Absalom’s person, we hear nothing of the graces of his mind! Alas! what are all outward attractions but vanity.

WILLIAM KELLY (1821-1906): Both Absalom and Saul were remarkable men for attracting the natural man according to the flesh.

A. W. PINK (1886-1952):In all Israel there was none to be so much praised as Absalom for his beauty.” How this reveals the low state of the nation at that time! Absalom was not esteemed for his moral worth, for he was utterly lacking in piety, wisdom, or justice. His handsome physique was what appealed to the people. His abominable wickedness was ignored, but his person was admired—which only served to increase his arrogance. The allowing of his luxuriant hair to grow to such a length, and then afterwards weighing it, shows the pride and effeminacy of the man.

ADAM CLARKE (1760-1832): The great mass of the public is ever caught and led by outward appearances.

THE EDITOR: Absalom’s popularity wasn’t only due to his appearance. Seven years had passed since Amnon’s rape of Tamar, and time discolours things. Undoubtedly, many considered David’s failure to punish Amnon as unjust, and that Absalom was ill-treated for doing what they themselves would have done if Tamar had been their sister.

G. CAMPBELL MORGAN: Absalom was brought back, but in the interest of the kingdom his punishment was not wholly removed. He was not allowed to see his father, and did not see him for two years.

MATTHEW HENRY (1662-1714): Though David allowed Absalom to return to his own house, he forbade him the court, and would not see him. He put him under this interdict, for his own honour, that he might not seem to countenance a criminal, nor to forgive him too easily. And also for Absalom’s greater humiliation. Perhaps he had heard something of his conduct when Joab went to fetch him, which gave him too much reason to think that he was not truly penitent; he therefore put him under this mark of his displeasure, that he might be awakened to a sight of his sin and to sorrow for it, and might make his peace with God.

A. W. PINK: It is clear that Absalom was chafing at his confinement—that he “sent for Joab” indicates he was virtually a prisoner in his own house.

G. CAMPBELL MORGAN: That Joab cared nothing personally for Absalom is evident from his refusal to see him.

THOMAS COKE (1747-1814): Someone who is little versed in royal courts will naturally be surprised to see Joab so zealous to get Absalom recalled from exile, and to observe him afterwards so cold and indifferent about having him re-established in his father’s favour. The truth is, when Joab had greatly gratified the king, and gained credit with him by bringing back Absalom to Jerusalem, he had little reason to be solicitous to bring him about the king’s person, and restore him to full favour—because in that case, Absalom’s interest with his father might impair his own.

A. W. PINK: Joab was a shrewd politician, with his finger on the public’s pulse, and he knew full well that Absalom stood high in the favour of the people.

MATTHEW HENRY: Once and again Absalom sent to Joab to come to him—but Joab would not come, probably because Absalom had not owned the kindness he had done him in bringing him to Jerusalem so gratefully as Joab thought he should have; proud men take every service done by them for a debt. One would think a person in Absalom’s circumstances would have sent Joab a kindly message and offered him a large gratuity: courtiers expect noble presents.

JOHN GILL (1697-1771): Joab would not come, knowing the king’s mind, and being unwilling to disoblige David by a troublesome solicitation.

MATTHEW POOLE (1624-1679): And partly, lest by interceding further for Absalom, he should revive the king’s remembrance of his former murder, and meet with the reproach of one murderer’s interceding for another; and partly, because by converse with Absalom he observed his temper to be such, that if once he were fully restored to the king’s favour, he would not only eclipse and oppose Joab’s interest and power with the king, but also attempt high things, not without danger to the king and kingdom, as it later happened.

JOHN GILL: When Absalom sent the second time, Joab would not come, knowing Absalom’s business with him.

THOMAS COKE: This the young man’s ambition could but ill endure. Therefore Absalom took this extraordinary step, which shewed him determined to go any lengths rather than fall short of his ambitious aims.

C. H. SPURGEON (1834-1892): He bade his servants set Joab’s field of barley on fire. This brought Joab down in high wrath to ask the question, “Why have your servants set my field on fire?” All that Absalom wanted was an interview, and he was not scrupulous as to the method by which he obtained it.

THE EDITOR: After Absalom answered him so plainly, why did Joab agree to intercede with David for him?

MATTHEW HENRY: Perhaps Joab was frightened at the surprising boldness and fury of Absalom, and apprehensive that he had an interest in the people strong enough to bear him out in doing the most daring things. Joab not only puts up with this injury, but goes on Absalom’s errand to the king.

JOHN GILL: So Joab came to the king, and told him what Absalom had said to him.

MATTHEW HENRY: Absalom’s message to David was haughty and imperious, very unbecoming of either a son or a subject. He undervalued the favour shown him in recalling him from banishment, and restoring him to his own house in Jerusalem: “Wherefore have I come from Geshur?” He denies that there was any iniquity in him, insinuating that therefore he had been wronged. He defies the king’s justice: “Let him kill me,” knowing David loved him too well to do it. Yet his message carried his point. David’s strong affection for him construed all this to be the language of a great respect to his father, and an earnest desire of his favour, when alas! it was far otherwise. See how easily wise and good men may be imposed upon by their own children, when they are blindly fond of them.

THE EDITOR: It was not respect, but contempt, because he had concluded that he had nothing to fear from his father now. And he was right. David called for Absalom, and he bowed his face “to the ground before the king, and David kissed him.”

JOHN TRAPP (1601-1699): He should have kicked him rather, and not have hardened him to further villainy. But David believed him to be a true penitent.

THE EDITOR: Absalom’s proud words, highhanded actions, and disdainful arrogance are often common follies of aristocratic privilege and narcissistic vanity—he saw himself as an immensely superior being, immune from retribution from anyone beneath his own status. But he had no conception whatsoever of how dangerous it was to offend someone like Joab, a man who never forgot, nor forgave a slight.

ALEXANDER WHYTE: Joab was all self-will, and pride, and as hard as a stone.

 

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David and His Nephew Joab – Part 10: Inquiring of the LORD

Psalm 73:24; Psalm 31:3; Psalm 27:1-4

Thou shalt guide me with thy counsel.

For thy name’s sake lead me, and guide me.

A Psalm of David. The LORD is my light and my salvation; whom shall I fear? the LORD is the strength of my life; of whom shall I be afraid? When the wicked, even mine enemies and my foes, came upon me to eat up my flesh, they stumbled and fell. Though an host should encamp against me, my heart shall not fear: though war should rise against me, in this will I be confident. One thing have I desired of the LORD, that will I seek after; that I may dwell in the house of the LORD all the days of my life, to behold the beauty of the LORD, and to inquire in his temple.

JOHN GILL (1697-1771): The Septuagint interpreters add to this title, “before he was anointed.” David was anointed three times, first when a youth in his father’s house; but this psalm could not be written before that time, because he had not then any experience of war, nor could be in any immediate apprehension of it; he was anointed a second time, after the death of Saul, at Hebron by the men of Judah; before that time he had been harassed by Saul, and distressed by the Amalekites, and was driven from the public worship of God.

C. H. SPURGEON (1834-1892): If one may judge from the matter of the song, the writer was pursued by enemies, was shut out from the house of the Lord, and parted from father and mother, Psalm 27:10; and was subject to slander, Psalm 27:12. Do not all these meet in the time when Doeg, the Edomite, spake against him to Saul?

THE EDITOR: Indeed, that matches the context of Psalm 27. When Doeg told Saul that Ahimelech the high priest had inquired of God for David, he was a slanderous false witness. At Nob, instead of David seeking God’s counsel, he had chosen flight, and an arm of flesh for defense, taking the “sword of Goliath” which was wrapped in a cloth behind the ephod, the means by which Ahimelech inquired of God, 1 Samuel 21:7-10.

CHARLES SIMEON (1759-1836): To behold this in its just light, we must look back.

THE EDITOR: Before that incident, there is no other mention of David inquiring of God. Yet, inquiring of the Lord was the “one thing” that Saul feared most, because he knew David would receive right answers from God on what to do. To prevent that, Saul ordered Doeg to kill all the priests, 1 Samuel 22:9-19. Nevertheless, God turned Saul’s paranoia and murderous rage to David’s blessing, by causing Ahimelech’s son Abiathar to escape—he fled to David with an ephod in his hand; only then did David began to inquire of the Lord. See 1 Samuel 22:20 to 23:9.

CHARLES SIMEON: This, to him whose trials were so great and manifold, was an unspeakable privilege. The extreme arduousness of his affairs also rendered it most desirable to him to spread all his difficulties before the Lord, and to ask counsel of Him for His direction. True, in private, he could carry his affairs to the Lord, and implore help from Him: but, as the public ordinances were of God’s special appointment, and as the high-priest was the established medium of access to Him, and of communications from Him, David delighted more particularly to wait upon God there.

C. H. SPURGEON: “But,” say you, “we cannot always be in the church or the meeting-house.” No; and even if you were, you might not be in God’s house any the more for that; but to be like a child at home with God wherever you may be, to live in Him, and with Him, wherever you are, this is to dwell in the house of the Lord all the days of your life…It is my one desire always to be “No more a stranger or a guest, but like a child at home”—at home with my God all the days of my life, that I may behold His unutterable beauty—and that I may inquire in His temple what is His will, and what are the exceeding great and precious promises which He has made to me in His Word.

CHARLES SIMEON: Nor have we less the advantage of David in relation to the things which we would ask of God: for we are able to inquire more explicitly and distinctly of our God than he could.

THE EDITOR: We may always inquire of God through Jesus Christ, our heavenly High Priest. But can you remember ever hearing a sermon on inquiring of God? Perhaps not, because inquiry is not something we do naturally, and even after grace enlightens us, believers often fail in it; we rely on our own thinking, or other people’s advice. Inquiring of God is “one thing” that believers can learn only by grace and personal experience.

WILLIAM JAY (1769-1853): What is the reason why many, in the greatness of their folly, forever go astray? They do not trust in the Lord with all their heart, but lean to their own understandings. “Trust in the LORD with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding. In all thy ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct thy paths. Be not wise in thine own eyes: fear the LORD, and depart from evil,” Proverbs 3:5-7.

JOHN NEWTON (1725-1807): Those who yield up themselves to Him, “He will guide with His eye,” Psalm 32:8.

THE EDITOR: Trace David’s life through First Samuel regarding inquiring of God—see his successes, and his failures to consult God, and how God faithfully restores David to seeking His counsel. In Second Samuel, see that horizontal thread line with those lessons repeated in David’s life, as we also must relearn them. Those who have ears to hear, and prayerful studious hearts, may do so to their profit.

MATTHEW HENRY (1662-1714): What it is David desires—that he might have the satisfaction of being instructed in his duty; for this he would inquire in God’s temple. Lord, what wilt thou have me to do?

MATTHEW POOLE (1624-1679): To inquireor diligently to seek God’s face and favour; or His mind and will.

MATTHEW HENRY: Those that resolve to follow God’s directions may in faith pray for it.

MARY WINSLOW (1774-1854): Beware of forming plans in your mind, and then coming to ask counsel of God.

C. H. SPURGEON: We make up our mind what we are going to do, and then we go down on our knees, and say, “Lord, show me what I ought to do;” then we follow out our intention and say, “I asked God’s direction.” My dear friend, you did ask it—but you did not follow it; you followed your own. You like God’s direction if it points the way you wish to go; but if God’s direction leads contrary to what you considered your own interest, it might have been a very long while before you had carried it out.

STEPHEN CHARNOCK (1628-1680): We make an idol of our own wills.

THE EDITOR: See that folly displayed in Judges 20, particularly in verses 14-28. If God’s counsel is not really sought, but only His stamp of approval on our own prior arrangements, God may answer us suitably in judgment. But to a true inquiry, we shall see the “beauty of the Lord,” in our lives, as David did in his life—God’s attributes of grace, mercy, wisdom, and long-suffering patience will be seen in His faithful guidance and loving care for us; and His providential answers display the beauty of His sovereign power in perfect timings and marvellous dispositions.

ANDREW GRAY (1805-1861): The “beauty of the Lord.” It never deceives. It never fades. It never loses its power. And it never disappoints.

JOHN GILL: Seek the face of the Lord, to consult Him in matters of difficulty; to search after the knowledge of divine things, and to ask for His blessings of grace, for which He will be inquired of by His people, to bestow them.

 

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David and His Nephew Joab – Part 9: Perceptive Discernment

2 Samuel 13:37-39; 2 Samuel 14:1-3

Absalom fled, and went to Talmai, the son of Ammihud, king of Geshur. And David mourned for his son every day. So Absalom fled, and went to Geshur, and was there three years. And the soul of king David longed to go forth unto Absalom: for he was comforted concerning Amnon, seeing he was dead.

Now Joab the son of Zeruiah perceived that the king’s heart was toward Absalom. And Joab sent to Tekoah, and fetched thence a wise woman, and said unto her, I pray thee, feign thyself to be a mourner, and put on now mourning apparel, and anoint not thyself with oil, but be as a woman that had a long time mourned for the dead: and come to the king, and speak on this manner unto him.

So Joab put the words in her mouth.

MATTHEW HENRY (1662-1714): David mourned for Amnon a good while, but time wore off that grief: he was “comforted concerning Amnon.” It also wore off his detestation of Absalom’s sin too much; instead of loathing him as a murderer, he “longs to go forth to him.

ALEXANDER WHYTE (1836-1921): Joab the son of Zeruiah perceived that the king’s heart was toward Absalom.” Joab was a deep man—deeper, quite possibly, than any man here.

THOMAS GOODWIN (1600-1679): Solomon says of a wise man, that though “the heart of man be deep, yet a man of understanding will fetch it out,” Proverbs 20:5—One, as by comparing one action with another, one speech with another; so wise men guess at men’s ends in things, and the respects that move them.

THE EDITOR: A similar approach should also apply in studying the historical books. The Bible is a Divine fabric, perfectly woven together by the Holy Spirit for our learning. It has vertical thread lines and horizontal thread lines, like the warp and woof of medieval tapestries; and when those two thread lines are woven together, a detailed mural emerges. So in our Bible studies—by comparing scripture to scripture, and meditating carefully on specific details and nuances, including the tone of voice in what men say, the Spirit expands our understanding; it then becomes three-dimensional, depicting the scene far more clearly, and some distinct ramifications become apparent. Sometimes there is even significance in what is not said.

THOMAS GOODWIN: Second, wise men guess at men’s ends, and the respects that move them, by gestures. By a cast of a man’s countenance and behaviour, men are often discerned.

WILLIAM GURNALL (1617-1679): Joab saw David’s bowels working towards Absalom through the casement of his countenance, and there­fore lets down a widow’s parable as a bucket to draw out that mercy which lay in his heart like water in a deep well. Joab knew what he did in sending the woman of Te­koah to David, with a petition wrapped up in a hand­some parable for Absalom. He knew the king’s heart went strongly after him.

ALEXANDER WHYTE: David was all heart, and passion, and sensibility.

A. W. PINK (1886-1952): Joab resorted to an artful subterfuge whereby David might be saved from disgracing the throne and yet at the same time regain his beloved son. He employed a woman to pose as a desolate widow and relate to the king a fictitious story, getting him to commit himself by passing judgment there on. She is termed a “wise woman,” but her wisdom was the guile of the Serpent. Satan has no initiative, but always imitates, and in the tale told by this tool of Joab we have but a poor parody of the parable given through Nathan. The case she pictured was well calculated to appeal to the king’s susceptibilities, and bring to mind his own sorrow. With artful design she sought to show that under exceptional circumstances, it would be permissible to dispense with the executing of a murderer, especially when the issue involved the destruction of the last heir to an inheritance, 2 Samuel 14:4-17.

THOMAS GOODWIN: How easily it prevailed with him and how glad David’s heart was!

ROBERT HAWKER (1753-1827): Observe: It was David’s natural tenderness to his son which Joab took advantage of. If you examine David’s history more closely, you will find that, for the most part, his sins and consequent chastisements, were induced by consulting the feelings of nature more than the glory of God.

MATTHEW HENRY: Joab plainly foresaw that David would at length be reconciled to Absalom, and therefore thought he should make both his friends if he were instrumental to bring it about. As a statesman, concerned for the public welfare, Joab knew how much Absalom was the darling of the people, and, if David should die while he was in banishment, it might occasion a civil war between those that were for Absalom, and those that were against him.

A. W. PINK: Joab was what would be termed in present-day language as an ‘astute politician’—an unprincipled man of subtle expediency.

THE EDITOR: Nevertheless, David perceived the true author of her tale, and discerned his real motive. “Is not the hand of Joab with thee in all this?” 2 Samuel 14:19.

JOHN TRAPP (1601-1699): Joab never pleased David better than when he pleaded for Absalom. All which Joab did, not out of any great goodwill to Absalom; but merely out of self love, to serve his own turn, now that he saw that David was set upon it to have him home, and that Absalom was likely enough to succeed his father in the kingdom. Now as Joab’s hand was in this whole business—he was the engineer—so is Satan’s hand in the sins of the wicked, and in the troubles of the godly, as is easily discerned.

THE EDITOR: Satan baits his temptations to suit their inclinations.

THOMAS GOODWIN: And the king said unto Joab, Behold now, I have done this thing: go therefore, bring the young man Absalom again,” 2 Samuel 14:21. Even so acceptable it was to David, that Joab could not have done him a greater kindness, and that Joab knew well enough.

JOHN GILL: And Joab fell to the ground on his face, and bowed himself, and thanked the king, and Joab said, Today thy servant knoweth that I have found grace in thy sight, my lord, O king, in that the king hath fulfilled the request of his servant,” 2 Samuel 14:22. He might presume upon this, that as the king had given orders at his request to recall Absalom, who had murdered his brother, which was tacitly giving him a pardon—so David would forgive him the murder of Abner, and think no more of it, since Joab perceived that now, which he had not so clearly perceived before, that he had found grace in his sight.

A. W. PINK: So Joab brought Absalom to Jerusalem. And the king said, Let him turn to his own house, and let him not see my face. So Absalom returned to his own house and saw not the king’s face,” 2 Samuel 14:23,24. Some think this measure of the king was designed to humble his son, hoping that he would now be brought to see the heinousness of his sin and repent for it. But surely there had been sufficient time for that in his three years’ sojourn in Geshur.

ROBERT HAWKER: David’s winking at Absalom’s murder was contrary to God’s law. Alas! how little do we keep a steady eye to what the Lord hath said, instead of what we feel.

A. W. PINK: Nothing could possibly justify David in disregarding the divine law, which cried aloud for the avenging of Amnon. God had given no commandment for his son to be restored, and therefore His blessing did not attend it—It is to be duly noted that there is no word recorded of David seeking unto the Lord at this time. Ominous silence! The energies of nature dominated him, and therefore there was no seeking of wisdom from above. This it is which casts light upon the dark scenes that follow.

THE EDITOR: Like the Israelites of Joshua’s day concerning the Gibeonites, David “asked not counsel at the mouth of the Lord,” Joshua 9:14.

 

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David and His Nephew Joab – Part 8: Rape, Murder, and Folly

2 Samuel 13:1-5,7,11-17

And it came to pass after this, that Absalom the son of David had a fair sister, whose name was Tamar; and Amnon the son of David loved her. And Amnon was so vexed, that he fell sick for his sister Tamar; for she was a virgin; and Amnon thought it hard for him to do any thing to her. But Amnon had a friend, whose name was Jonadab, the son of Shimeah David’s brother: and Jonadab was a very subtil man. And he said unto him, Why art thou, being the king’s son, lean from day to day? wilt thou not tell me? And Amnon said unto him, I love Tamar, my brother Absalom’s sister. And Jonadab said unto him, Lay thee down on thy bed, and make thyself sick: and when thy father cometh to see thee, say unto him, I pray thee, let my sister Tamar come, and give me meat, and dress the meat in my sight, that I may see it, and eat it at her hand.

Then David sent home to Tamar, saying, Go now to thy brother Amnon’s house, and dress him meat.

So Tamar went to her brother Amnon’s house; and he was laid down. And she took flour, and kneaded it, and made cakes in his sight, and did bake the cakes. And when she had brought them unto him to eat, he took hold of her, and said unto her, Come lie with me, my sister. And she answered him, Nay, my brother, do not force me; for no such thing ought to be done in Israel: do not thou this folly. And I, whither shall I cause my shame to go? and as for thee, thou shalt be as one of the fools in Israel. Now therefore, I pray thee, speak unto the king; for he will not withhold me from thee. Howbeit he would not hearken unto her voice: but, being stronger than she, forced her, and lay with her. Then Amnon hated her exceedingly; so that the hatred wherewith he hated her was greater than the love wherewith he had loved her. And Amnon said unto her, Arise, be gone. And she said unto him, There is no cause: this evil in sending me away is greater than the other that thou didst unto me. But he would not hearken unto her.

THOMAS COKE (1747-1814): When David had taken Rabbah and the other cities of Ammon, he had not long returned to Jerusalem before his domestic misfortunes began to multiply upon him, to verify the terrible threats which Nathan had denounced from the Lord, “I will raise up evil against thee out of thine own house,” 2 Samuel 12:11.

ADAM CLARKE (1760-1832): Tamar was the daughter of David and Maacah, daughter of the king of Geshur, and the sister of Absalom. Amnon was David’s eldest son by Ahinoam. She was therefore a half-sister to Amnon, but a whole sister to Absalom. “Jonadab was a very subtle man,”—and most diabolic advice did he give to his cousin.

G. CAMPBELL MORGAN (1863-1945): It is said of Jonadab that he was a friend of Amnon. The word “friend” is desecrated by its use in such a connection. Any who out of friendship will aid in the pathway of sin, prove themselves enemies rather than friends. Jonadab might have saved Amnon, even though for the moment he had offended him.

MATTHEW HENRY (1662-1714): David saw no reason to suspect any mischief intended. God hid his heart from understanding in this matter. He therefore immediately orders Tamar to go and attend her sick brother. He does it very innocently, but afterwards, no doubt, reflected upon it with great regret.

ADAM CLARKE: Amnon violates her. He then hates her, and expels her from his house.

THOMAS COKE: Commentators are at a loss to account for this sudden and excessive hatred; and, indeed, there seems to be something extraordinary in it.

MATTHEW HENRY: Amnon’s lust was unnatural in itself—to lust after his sister, miscalling it “love.”

THE EDITOR: What had attracted Amnon to Tamar’s beauty most was her virginal innocency. Such was the Satanic nature of his lust; the devil hates holiness and purity, and always seeks to destroy it. But once Amnon had defiled Tamar’s innocent purity, that attraction was gone; now Amnon realized the “folly” and consequences of what he had done, Leviticus 18:7; Deuteronomy 22:25-27. But rather than loathing himself, he blamed Tamar for it, and her prior warning against it only made him despise her more. Now he couldn’t bear to be around her. Tamar left weeping, and went to her brother Absalom, 2 Samuel 13:16-20.

JOHN GILL (1697-1771): When king David heard of all these things, he was very wroth” with Amnon, 2 Samuel 13:21—but we read not of any reproof he gave him, nor of any punishment inflicted on him.

THE EDITOR: Absalom hated Amnon for defiling Tamar, but he said nothing for two years. Then, Absalom asked David to come with all his sons to his sheep-shearing feast. But why did he want David to go? Absalom was ambitious, and next in line to the throne after Amnon, and he harboured a deep resentment against his father for not punishing Amnon, 2 Samuel 15:1-4; if David had attended his feast, Absalom likely would have murdered all of them, including his father, and seized David’s throne. But in the midst of judgment, God remembers mercy. It was God’s preventative grace that moved David not to attend; “The king’s heart is in the hand of the LORD…he turneth it whithersoever he will,” Proverbs 21:1; “The preparations of the heart in man, and the answer of the tongue, is from the LORD,” Proverbs 16:1.

G. CAMPBELL MORGAN: Absalom probably was moved by mixed motives. Absalom wanted vengeance on the man who had wronged his sister. His subsequent actions, however, show that he saw in Amnon a hindrance to carrying out his own secret ambitions.

THE EDITOR: Next, Absalom asked him to send Amnon; David was suspicious, but after Absalom pressed him on it, he agreed to send Amnon with the others, 2 Samuel 14:23-27. “And it came to pass, while they were in the way, that tidings came to David, saying, Absalom hath slain all the king’s sons, and there is not one of them left. And Jonadab, the son of Shimeah, David’s brother, answered and said, Let not my lord suppose that they have slain all the young men the king’s sons; for Amnon only is dead: for by the appointment of Absalom this hath been determined from the day that he forced his sister Tamar,” 2 Samuel 13:30,32.

G. CAMPBELL MORGAN: It is noticeable that Jonadab the “friend” who had aided Amnon, was still on hand, and the same cool, calculating traits were manifest in his character.

MATTHEW HENRY: What a wicked man was he, if he knew all this or had any cause to suspect it, that he did not make David acquainted with it sooner, that means might be used to make up the quarrel, or at least that David might not throw Amnon into the mouth of danger by letting him go to Absalom’s house. If we do not our utmost to prevent mischief, we make ourselves accessory to it. “If we say, Behold, we knew it not; doth not he that pondereth the heart consider” whether we did or no? See Proverbs 24:11,12

THE EDITOR: Some in Israel likely thought that Absalom was justified in killing Amnon, and viewed him as wielding the sword of righteous justice. But Absalom’s principle motive wasn’t justice, nor ambition, but revenge, nursed by his own offended proud vanity, 2 Samuel 14:26; his waiting two years was only to conceal his intentions, because Absalom had decided to kill Amnon the very day he had forced his sister—‘should he deal with my sister as with an harlot!’—the same motive that Simeon and Levi cited for their revenge regarding Dinah’s defilement, and equally as deceitful in its planning, Genesis 34:31. That made it a cold premeditated murder of personal revenge, pure and simple.

MATTHEW HENRY: Sin brings trouble into a family, and one sin is often made the punishment of another.

THE EDITOR: Micah, though he prophesied of Israel’s later wickedness, could have been describing the mess David’s family had now become: “The best of them is as a briar: the most upright is sharper than a throne hedge…trust yet not in a friend, put ye not confidence in a guide…a man’s enemies are the men of his own household,” Micah 7:4-6.

MATTHEW HENRY: Thus God chastened David with the rod of men. Adultery and murder were David’s sins, and those sins among his children were the beginnings of his punishment, and the more grievous because he had reason to fear that his bad example might have helped to bring them to these wickednesses—Amnon ravishing Tamar, assisted in his plot to do it by Jonadab his kinsman, and villainously executing it; and Absalom murdering Amnon for it. Both were great griefs to David, and the more so, because he was unwittingly made accessory to both, by sending Tamar to Amnon, and Amnon to Absalom.

THE EDITOR: David certainly blamed himself for it, and saw it all as God’s judgment, as God had said, “I will raise up evil against thee, out thine own house.” Now David’s most favourite son had to flee.

JOHN GILL: Absalom fled to Geshur, where he remained three years.

G. CAMPBELL MORGAN: In all these things David was reaping the result of the sin that had cursed his life, and the full harvest was not yet.

 

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Hearing God’s Rod

1 Peter 1:6,7; Micah 6:9; Psalm 85:8

Now for a season, if need be, ye are in heaviness through manifold temptations: That the trial of your faith, being much more precious than of gold that perisheth, though it be tried with fire, might be found unto praise and honour and glory at the appearing of Jesus Christ.

Hear ye the rod, and who hath appointed it.

I will hear what God the LORD will speak.

JOHN CALVIN (1509-1564): When visited with affliction, it is of great importance that we should consider it as coming from God, and as expressly intended for our good.

SAMUEL RUTHERFORD (1600-1661): I would wish each cross were looked in the face seven times, and read over and over again. It is the messenger of the Lord, and speaks something.

MARTYN LLOYD-JONES (1899-1981): I sometimes think that the whole art of the Christian life is the art of asking questions. Our danger is just to allow things to happen to us and to endure them without saying anything apart from a groan, a grumble or a complaint. The thing to do is to discover, if we can, why these things are taking place. Try to discover the explanation, and in this connection the apostle uses the following terms. “Wherein,” he says, “ye greatly rejoice, though now for a season if need be, ye are in heaviness through manifold temptations.

J. C. RYLE (1816-1900): Let us settle it firmly in our minds that there is a meaning, a “needs-be,” and a message from God in every sorrow that falls upon us—every cross is a message from God, and intended to do us good.

MARTYN LLOYD-JONES:If need be!” Ah, that is the secret—Peter says: “You are at the moment enduring this grief, because it has proved needful that you should do so.” Now there, then, is our principle: there is a definite purpose in all this. This does not happen accidentally. These things happen, says the apostle, because they are good for us, because they are part of our discipline in this life and in this world, because―let me put it quite plainly―because God has appointed it.

MATTHEW HENRY (1662-1714): Every rod is appointed―what kind it shall be, where it shall light, and how long it shall lie. God, in every affliction, performs the thing that is appointed for us, Job 23:14; and to Him therefore we must have an eye, to Him we must have an ear; we must hear what He says to us by the affliction. “Hear it, and know it for thy good,” Job 5:27.

C. H. SPURGEON (1834-1892): Blessed is the man whom thou chastenest, O LORD, and teachest him out of thy law,” Psalm 94:12. Though he may not feel blessed while smarting under the rod of chastisement, yet blessed he is; he is precious in God’s sight, or the Lord would not take the trouble to correct him.

JOHN GILL (1697-1771): The Lord teaches by His Spirit, His Word, and His providences, even by afflictive ones.

WILLIAM JAY (1769-1853): Therefore you are commanded to “hear the rod,” Micah 6:9―What does it say?

JOHN GILL: When God afflicts, it is either for sin, to prevent it, or purge from it, or to bring His people to a sense of it, to repent of it, and forsake it, or to try their graces, and make them more partakers of His holiness; and when good men, as Job, are at a loss about this, not being conscious of any gross iniquity committed, or a course of sin continued in, it is lawful, and right, and commendable, to inquire the reason of it, and learn, if possible, the end, design, and use of such dispensations.

JOHN TRAPP (1601-1699): Here, then, God must be sought unto for direction.

C. H. SPURGEON: At such times it is our wisdom to apply to the Lord Himself. Frequently the dealings of God with us are mysterious, and then also we may appeal to Him as His own interpreter, and in due time He will make all things plain.

WILLIAM GURNALL (1617-1679): Indeed, when God afflicts, He puts an especial season for prayer into our hands.

J. C. RYLE: Trials are intended to make us think, to wean us from the world, to send us to the Bible, and to drive us to our knees.

WILLIAM JAY: “In the day of adversity, consider” the ends He has in view in afflicting you, Ecclesiastes 7:14. What are those ends? They all show that resignation is the most beautiful and becoming thing in the world—but they are various—a Christian will often find it necessary to turn to each of them before he can obtain an answer to the prayer, “Show me wherefore Thou contendest with me?” They include Correction; Prevention; Trial; Instruction; and Usefulness.

GEORGE WHITEFIELD (1714-1770): Of all things in the world to be avoided, a stony heart, or a stupidity under God’s afflicting hand, is most to be deprecated.

WILLIAM JAY: Nothing is more trying than what an old divine calls “a dumb affliction;” so that when we put our ear to it, we can seem to hear nothing as to what it implies or intends. Job was in such a state of ignorance and perplexity: “Behold, I go forward, but He is not there; and backward, but I cannot perceive Him: on the left hand, where He doth work, but I cannot behold Him: He hideth himself on the right hand, that I cannot see Him,” Job 23:8,9. In such a condition, it affords relief to be able to add, “but He knoweth the way that I take,” Job 23:10. Yet duty requires that we should have some knowledge of it ourselves. A natural man is only concerned to escape from trouble, but the Christian is anxious to have it sanctified and improved. He is commanded to hear the rod. While God chastens, He teaches. I must therefore be in a learning frame of mind. I must say unto God, “Show me wherefore thou contendest with me,” Job 10:2. “I will hear what”—by this event—“God the Lord will speak.”

MATTHEW HENRY: Hear what the rod says to you―what convictions, what counsels, what cautions, it speaks to you. Every rod has a voice, and it is the voice of God that is to be heard in the rod of God, and it is well for those that understand the language of it, which, if we would do, we must have an eye to Him that appointed it.

JOHN CALVIN: No chastisements, however severe, will drive us to repentance, if the Lord do not quicken us by His Spirit—that we may clearly see what is our rebellion and obstinacy against God, and what remedies are necessary for curing our diseases.

MATTHEW HENRY: Though affliction drive us to God, He will not therefore reject us if in sincerity we seek Him, for afflictions are sent on purpose to bring us to Him.

JOHN CALVIN: Let our miseries drive us to seek Christ.

C. H. SPURGEON: Affliction is God’s black dog that He sends after wandering sheep to bring them back to the fold. Do not begin fighting the dog, and trying to struggle with him, for you will get nothing by that, but run away to the Shepherd. One of these days you will be glad of all the rough treatment that the black dog gave you in the day of your tribulation.

WILLIAM JAY: It is an awful thing to come out of trouble: for it always leaves us better or worse than it finds us. We should therefore ask with peculiar concern―“What benefit have I derived from such a visitation of divine providence? The rod spoke―did I hear its message?

 

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David and His Nephew Joab – Part 7: Grace

2 Samuel 11:26,27; 2 Samuel 12:1; 2 Samuel 12:26-31

And when the wife of Uriah heard that Uriah her husband was dead, she mourned for her husband. And when the mourning was past, David sent and fetched her to his house, and she became his wife, and bare him a son. But the thing that David had done displeased the LORD.

And the LORD sent Nathan unto David.

And Joab fought against Rabbah of the children of Ammon, and took the royal city. And Joab sent messengers to David, and said, I have fought against Rabbah, and have taken the city of waters. Now therefore gather the rest of the people together, and encamp against the city, and take it: lest I take the city, and it be called after my name. And David gathered all the people together, and went to Rabbah, and fought against it, and took it. And he took their king’s crown from off his head, the weight whereof was a talent of gold with the precious stones: and it was set on David’s head. And he brought forth the spoil of the city in great abundance. And he brought forth the people that were therein, and put them under saws, and under harrows of iron, and under axes of iron, and made them pass through the brickkiln: and thus did he unto all the cities of the children of Ammon. So David and all the people returned unto Jerusalem.

MATTHEW POOLE (1624-1679): Bathsheba “became his wife—when the mourning was past; which was seven days, Genesis 1:10; 1 Samuel 31:13. Nor could the nature of the thing admit of longer delay lest the too early birth of the child discover David’s sin.

ROBERT HAWKER (1753-1827): At least nine months must have elapsed from the time of David’s adultery to this message of Nathan to David; because the child was born. During which time, it doth not appear that David had once expressed sorrow for his aggravated sins.

MATTHEW HENRY (1662-1714): What can we think of David’s state all this while? Can we imagine his heart never smote him for it, or that he never lamented it in secret before God?

JOHN GILL (1697-1771): David was nine months or more without any true sense of his sin, his heart hardened, his graces dormant, the joys of salvation taken from him, and he without any communion with God, and having little concern about it; though perhaps he might have some pangs at times, which quickly went off.

ROBERT HAWKER: How utterly incapable a man is to recover himself, if the Lord doth not recover him! Grace must first enter the heart before a sense of sin can take place in the mind. The Lord sent Nathan unto David; not David sent to call Nathan, or make supplication to the Lord. “Thou restorest my soul,” saith David upon another occasion, Psalm 23:3. Without this awakening by grace, neither David, nor any other sinner, could ever awaken himself. The method that Nathan took to awaken David to a sense of his sin, was to make him his own judge—he opens his commission with a parable, 2 Samuel 12:1-5.

ADAM CLARKE (1760-1832): It was construed to make David, unwittingly, pass sentence on himself. It was in David’s hand, what his own letter was in the hands of the brave but unfortunate Uriah, 2 Samuel 12:5-7.

JOHN GILL: Though the Lord may leave His people to fall into sin, and suffer them to continue therein some time, yet not always; they shall rise again through the assistance of His Spirit and grace, in the acts of repentance and faith, both in private and public…Either while Nathan was present, or after he was gone, David penned Psalm 51, that it might remain on record as a testimony of his repentance, and for the instruction of such as should fall into sin, on how to behave, and where to apply for their comfort —To the chief Musician, A Psalm of David, when Nathan the prophet came unto him, after he had gone in to Bathsheba: “Have mercy upon me, O God, according to thy lovingkindness: according unto the multitude of thy tender mercies blot out my transgressions. Wash me throughly from mine iniquity, and cleanse me from my sin. For I acknowledge my transgressions: and my sin is ever before me,” Psalm 51:1-3.

MATTHEW HENRY: Though he had been assured that his sin was pardoned, 2 Samuel 12:13, he prays earnestly for pardon, and greatly laments his sin.

C. H. SPURGEON (1834-1892): When the divine message had aroused his dormant conscience and made him see the greatness of his guilt, he wrote this Psalm. He had forgotten his psalmody while he was indulging his flesh, but he returned to his harp when his spiritual nature was awakened, and he poured out his song to the accompaniment of sighs and tears.

THOMAS SCOTT (1747-1821): Nothing could more decidedly manifest the depth of genuine repentance.

MATTHEW HENRY: David’s sin was secret, and industriously concealed, but the punishment should be open, and industriously proclaimed, to the shame of David, 2 Samuel 12:7-12—As face answers to face in a glass, so does the punishment often answer to the sin; here is blood for blood and uncleanness for uncleanness. Thus God would show how much He hates sin, even in His own people, and that, wherever He find it, He will not let it go unpunished.

THE EDITOR: Joab murdered Abner to protect his position; and David ordered Uriah’s murder to hide his guilt. If anything, as “a man after God’s own heart,” David was more guilty, 1 Samuel 13:14; Acts 13:22. But God’s sovereign grace was the vital difference between them. In faithful grace, because David was God’s child, He sent Nathan to bring him to repentance, and chastised him severely; but God let Joab, who was not His child, continue onward in his own wicked way without rebuke, because God “seeth that his day is coming,” Psalm 37:13.

ALEXANDER WHYTE (1836-1921): Had it not been for David, Joab would have climbed up into the throne of Israel…ambition was Joab’s besetting sin. His only virtue was a certain proud, patronizing loyalty to his king.

THE EDITOR: After Bathsheba became David’s wife, and their child was born, Joab surely deduced why David had ordered him to send Uriah home, and why David later ordered Uriah’s murder. Even if Joab hadn’t actually kept the king’s letter, David knew it existed; therefore Joab had been confident that his position as captain of the host was secure, which was all that he ever wanted. Though all the exact details of David’s sin are not spelled out in Psalm 51, its publication could not fail to convince Joab that God had brought David to a true repentance, and this negated the value of David’s hand-written letter, and made Joab’s position much less secure. Therefore he sent messengers to David, saying, “I have fought against Rabbah, and have taken the city of waters. Now therefore gather the rest of the people together, and encamp against the city, and take it: lest I take the city, and it be called after my name.”

THOMAS COKE (1747-1814): Nothing can be more gallant and generous than the message of Joab: “Lest I take the city, and it be called after my name.

JOHN TRAPP (1601-1699): The modesty and fidelity of Joab herein is worthy of admiration; and that above all his other noble acts whatsoever; for in those, he overcame others; but in this, himself. And surely his sending for David was more for his honour than if he had triumphed a hundred times over Rabbah and the Ammonites.  

JOHN GILL: Joab, though an ambitious man, had a regard to the fame and credit of David his king.

ROBERT HAWKER: In praising Joab, do not fail to discover the hand of a gracious God in the event. Here would I ever keep a fixed eye.

THE EDITOR: Modesty, gallantry, and generosity were never Joab’s considerations. This was Joab’s calculated gesture of submission, pledging himself to be no threat to David, as long as he kept his position as captain of the host. Taking Rabbah himself, and the glory of the victory, is what an “ambitious” man eyeing the throne would have done—but notice that detail concerning the Ammonite crown. Joab was clearly demonstrating that he had no ambitions whatsoever to wear David’s crown, and that he wasn’t nursing any personal ill will towards him. Regarding Joab’s fidelity, he was loyal to David only until he thought that protecting his coveted position was better served by disloyalty; and that’s why, when David was old and about to pass the crown to Solomon, Joab supported Adonijah’s attempt to usurp David’s throne, 1 Kings 1:5-7.

 

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David and His Nephew Joab – Part 6: Secret Messages

2 Samuel 11:1-6

And it came to pass, after the year was expired, at the time when kings go forth to battle, that David sent Joab, and his servants with him, and all Israel; and they destroyed the children of Ammon, and besieged Rabbah. But David tarried still at Jerusalem. And it came to pass in an eveningtide, that David arose from off his bed, and walked upon the roof of the king’s house: and from the roof he saw a woman washing herself; and the woman was very beautiful to look upon.

And David sent and enquired after the woman. And one said, Is not this Bathsheba, the daughter of Eliam, the wife of Uriah the Hittite? And David sent messengers, and took her; and she came in unto him, and he lay with her; for she was purified from her uncleanness: and she returned unto her house. And the woman conceived, and sent and told David, and said, I am with child.

And David sent to Joab, saying, Send me Uriah the Hittite. And Joab sent Uriah to David.

JOHN GILL (1697-1771): The scheme David had contrived was to get Uriah home to his wife for a few days, that it might be thought the child she had conceived was his, whereby David’s sin might be concealed—“and Joab sent Uriah to David,” not knowing his business, and besides, it was his duty to obey David’s command.

MATTHEW HENRY (1662-1714): Observe the occasions which led to this sin. First, neglect of his business. When he  should have been abroad with his army in the field, fighting the battles of the Lord, David devolved the care upon others, and he “tarried still at Jerusalem”…When we are out of the way of our duty we are in the way of temptation.

JOHN GILL: It would have been well for David if he had gone forth with the army himself, then the sin he fell into would have been prevented.

MATTHEW HENRY: Second, a love of ease, and the indulgence of a slothful temper: “He came off his bed at evening-tide.” There David had dozed away the afternoon in idleness—he used to pray, not only morning and evening, but at noon, in the day of his trouble: it is to be feared he had, this noon, omitted to do so. Idleness gives great advantage to the tempter—the bed of sloth often proves the bed of lust. Third, a wandering eye: “He saw a woman washing herself.” The sin came in at the eye, as Eve’s did. Perhaps David sought to see her— but at least, he did not practise according to his own prayer, “Turn away my eyes from beholding vanity,” Psalm 119:37; either he had not, like Job, “made a covenant with his eyes,” or, at this time, he had forgotten it.

ADAM CLARKE (1760-1832): Our Lord says, Even he who looks on a woman to lust after her, has already committed adultery with her in his heart, Matthew 5:28.

THE EDITOR: When Uriah arrived, David tried to persuade him to go home to his wife. Though Uriah knew it not, his answer was a rebuke to David’s slothful neglect of duty: “The ark, and Israel, and Judah, abide in tent,” Uriah said, “and my lord Joab, and the servants of my lord, are encamped in the open fields; shall I then go into mine house, to eat and to drink, and to lie with my wife? as thou livest, and as thy soul liveth, I will not do this thing,” 2 Samuel 11:11.

MATTHEW HENRY: The consideration of the public hardships and hazards kept Uriah from lawful pleasures, yet could not keep David, though more nearly interested, from unlawful ones. Uriah’s severity to himself should have shamed David for his indulgence of himself.

THE EDITOR: The next day, David made Uriah drunk; but Uriah still failed to go home.

ROBERT HAWKER (1753-1827): Baffled in both attempts, David now proceeds to an act, at the very mention of which, nature shudders. To conceal his shame for adultery, that the world might know nothing of his sin with Bath-sheba, nor Uriah ever reproach him for it, he determines to have his brave and faithful servant murdered in the battle. Alas! how desperately wicked is the heart of man by nature.

ALEXANDER WHYTE (1836-1921): It came to pass in the morning, that David wrote a letter to Joab, and sent it by the hand of Uriah. And he wrote in the letter, saying, Set ye Uriah in the forefront of the hottest battle, and retire ye from him, that he may be smitten, and die,” 2 Samuel 11:14,15. That dreadful letter shows us David’s desperation, indeed; but it shows us also David’s estimate of Joab.

THE EDITOR: When Uriah delivered David’s letter, Joab probably read the king’s hand-written message immediately, perhaps even in Uriah’s very presence. What were Joab’s thoughts as he dismissed Uriah from his tent? “What was the reason for this order? Was it a political intrigue? Or, perhaps it’s some deep plot to remove me as captain of the host? Is my position secure enough to disobey this order? How can I protect myself?” All Joab knew for certain was that David wanted this thing done secretly.

ROBERT HAWKER: What the thoughts of Joab were upon this occasion, is not said. But it is melancholy to observe how readily he fell in with David’s command.

A. W. PINK (1886-1952): David did not slay Uriah by his own hand, but made Joab an accomplice.

ALEXANDER WHYTE:  But how could Joab have the utter depravity and the cold blood to do it? How could he plan an attack, sham a retreat, and risk a defeat, all to murder a noble, spotless, unsuspecting comrade? It was not soldierly obedience.

JOHN TRAPP (1601-1699): Joab perhaps hoped to ingratiate himself, and to come off the better for the murder of Abner, which he had not yet answered, since David was now no less guilty than himself.

THE EDITOR: A perceptive calculating man, Joab would conclude that his best course of personal safety was to obey David’s order exactly as written; but he likely kept that hand-written letter as proof that he had only obeyed the king’s orders; such a defense has excused many a military crime; and, fearing that his letter might become public, now David could never attempt to remove him as captain of the host. After Uriah’s death, Joab was careful to write nothing down and precisely instructed a messenger on what to say in his verbal situation report, “When thou hast made an end of telling the matters of the war unto the king, and if so be that the king’s wrath arise, and he say unto thee, Wherefore approached ye so nigh unto the city when ye did fight? knew ye not that they would shoot from the wall? Who smote Abimelech the son of Jerubbesheth? did not a woman cast a piece of a millstone upon him from the wall, that he died in Thebez? why went ye nigh the wall? then say thou, Thy servant Uriah the Hittite is dead also,” 2 Samuel 11:18-21.

ROBERT HAWKER: From the apprehension Joab expressed of the king’s displeasure, it seems he had no knowledge of David’s adultery and the motive why he wished the death of Uriah. From the king’s letter, indeed, he saw that Uriah’s death would be pleasing to him, and that the intelligence of this would soften his displeasure at the success of the Ammonites. The story of Abimelech, which Joab thought David would consider a similar case to Uriah’s death, is related in Judges 9:50-55.

THE EDITOR: David also replied to Joab verbally, with further orders, one veiled in a cryptic threat that he knew only Joab would really understand: “Let not this thing displease thee, for the sword devoureth one as well as another: make thy battle more strong against the city, and overthrow it,” 2 Samuel 11:25. Joab obeyed the king’s orders: he kept his mouth shut and attacked again.

C. H. SPURGEON (1834-1892): It is horrible when a man is determined to be dishonest, yet gets someone else to commit the sin for him!

G. CAMPBELL MORGAN (1863-1945): From the merely human standpoint, the unutterable folly of the whole affair is evident, as David puts himself in Joab’s power by sharing with him the secret of his guilt.

 

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David and His Nephew Joab – Part 5: Warriors

1 Chronicles 11:4-6

And David and all Israel went to Jerusalem, which is Jebus; where the Jebusites were, the inhabitants of the land. And the inhabitants of Jebus said to David, Thou shalt not come hither. Nevertheless David took the castle of Zion, which is the city of David. And David said, Whosoever smiteth the Jebusites first shall be chief and captain. So Joab the son of Zeruiah went first up, and was chief.

MATTHEW POOLE (1624-1679): Before this Joab was one of David’s chief captains, 2 Samuel 3:22,23, and general of the forces of Judah; but now he is made captain-general of all the forces of Israel and Judah.

THE EDITOR: To be “captain of the host of Israel,” was Joab’s heart desire, the position that he coveted above all else. But David didn’t just hand that exalted rank to him. This was David’s first military campaign as king over “all Israel,” and he had many “mighty and valiant” men in his army, as seen from 1 Chronicles 11:10-47; Joab would have to merit this promotion in competition with every other valiant soldier of Israel. Perhaps David made that condition in a vain hope of freeing himself from Joab’s unruly domineering behaviour.

ADAM CLARKE (1760-1832): Joab was a good soldier, but in every respect a bad man, and a dangerous subject.

ALEXANDER WHYTE (1836-1921): After his own contemptuous way, Joab was always true to David—that is, he made short work of anyone else who was false to David. And he performed some splendid services both as a soldier and a statesman in the extension and consolidation of David’s kingdom.

THE EDITOR: After taking Jerusalem, several wars followed against the many enemies that bordered Israel: first, three battles against the Philistines, 2 Samuel 5 to 2 Samuel 8:1; next, the Moabites, and Hadadezer, the Syrian king of Zobah; then the Syrians of Damascus who aided Hadadezer, 2 Samuel 8:1-5. In all these campaigns, David took the field himself, “and the LORD preserved David whithersoever he went.” But Joab, and his brother Abishai, a man no less fearsome, played significant roles; against the Edomites, Abishai slew 18,000 men; on another occasion, he slew 300 men with his spear.

THOMAS COKE (1747-1814): We read particularly that Joab smote every male in Edom, 1 Kings 11:15,16.

THOMAS ADAMS (1583-1656): Joab is heartened, and hardened with blood.

MATTHEW HENRY (1662-1714): He was confessedly a great soldier, and one that had so much religion in him as to dedicate of his spoils to the house of God, 1 Chronicles 26:28.

THE EDITOR: David gratefully dedicated much spoil from his campaigns and tribute money to the house of the Lord, knowing the Author of his victories, 2 Samuel 8:10-12. Joab also dedicated a portion of his spoils, 1 Chronicles 26:26-28. But Joab’s later conduct suggests that his dedication was a customary religious formalism, rather than any true heart gratitude to the God of Israel, even as respectable pagans paid temple tributes to appease the gods of their state religion. After the Ammonite king died, David sent peace ambassadors to comfort his son, the new king.

ALEXANDER MacLAREN (1826-1910): David’s friendly embassy was suspected of covering hostile intentions, 2 Samuel 10:1-6. Those who have no kindness in their own hearts are slow to believe kindness in others. ‘What does he want to get by it?’ is the question put by cynical ‘shrewd men.’ But the Ammonites need not have rejected David’s overtures so insolently as by shaving half his ambassadors’ beards and docking their robes. The insult meant war.

THE EDITOR: Now David “sent Joab, and all the host, the mighty men,” against the Ammonites, who also had hired Syrian mercenaries to aid them against Israel, 2 Samuel 10:8.

MATTHEW HENRY: Joab found the enemy so well prepared that his conduct and courage were never so tried as now. The enemy disposed themselves into two bodies, one of Ammonites, which were posted at the gate of the city; the Syrians were posted at a distance in the field, to charge the forces of Israel in the flank or rear, while the Ammonites charged them in the front. Joab was soon aware of the design, and accordingly divided his forces.

A. W. PINK (1886-1952): Joab was an able warrior.

JOHN GILL (1697-1771): He “chose of all the choice men of Israel;” the most eminent for strength, and valour, and military skill, who had been tried and were famous for warlike exploits, “and put them in array against the Syrians,” who might be the strongest party, and the best soldiers—though being but mercenaries, if hard beset, would sooner give way, as he might suppose, upon which the Ammonites would do the same, 2 Samuel 10:9.

MATTHEW HENRY: The rest of the forces he put under command of Abishai his brother, to engage the Ammonites. He prudently arranges the matter with Abishai, that which part soever was borne hard upon, the other should come in to its assistance. He supposes the worst, that one of them should be obliged to give back; and in that case, upon a signal given, the other should send a detachment to relieve it.

ALEXANDER MacLAREN: Danger awoke the best in Joab. Fierce and truculent as he often was, he had a hero’s mettle in him, and in that dark hour he flamed like a pillar of light. His ringing words to his brother as they parted, not knowing if they would ever meet again, are like a clarion call.

MATTHEW HENRY: Joab’s speech before the battle is not long, but pertinent, and brave. “Be of good courage, and let us play the men for our people, and for the cities of our God: and the LORD do that which seemeth him good,” 2 Samuel 10:12. God and our country was the word. He piously leaves the issue with God: “When we have done our part, according to the duty of our place, let the Lord do that which seemeth to him good.

JOHN GILL: This Joab said, not only to encourage Abishai and himself, but in the hearing of the rest of the officers of the army, and many of the people, to hearten them to the battle; who might be somewhat intimidated with the number of their enemies, and the position they were in, being before and behind them; and therefore he thought proper to make such a speech to them to animate them.

ADAM CLARKE: This is a very fine military address, equal to anything in ancient or modern times.

THE EDITOR: Joab’s perceptive assessment of the character of his enemies proved right.

MATTHEW POOLE: Joab prudently falls upon the Syrians first, because they were but mercenaries, and not concerned so much in the success as the Ammonites were, whose interest lay at stake; and therefore not likely to venture too far in their defence. “And they fled before him,” 2 Samuel 10:13.

MATTHEW HENRY: Then the Ammonites were routed by Abishai; the Ammonites seem not to have fought at all, but, upon the retreat of the Syrians, to have fled into the city.

JOHN GILL: Joab did not stay to lay siege to their city, the season of the year not being proper for it, winter drawing near, “so Joab returned from the children of Ammon, and came to Jerusalem” in triumph, to report to David the victory he had obtained, 2 Samuel 10:14.

THE EDITOR: But the war was not over. When the Syrians regrouped, David “gathered all Israel together,” crossed over the Jordan River, and inflicted such a devastating defeat on them that they “made peace with Israel—so the Syrians feared to help the children of Ammon any more,” 2 Samuel 10:15-19. Now the fighting paused for winter, with the Ammonites remaining undefeated in Rabbah.

 

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David and His Nephew Joab – Part 4: God’s Purposes

Isaiah 45:7; Psalm 135:5,6; Daniel 2:21

I form the light, and create darkness: I make peace, and create evil: I the LORD do all these things.

I know that the LORD is great, and that our Lord is above all gods. Whatsoever the LORD pleased, that did he in heaven, and in earth, in the seas, and all deep places.

He removeth kings, and setteth up kings.

JOHN CALVIN (1509-1564):  God had chosen David to be king.

A. W. PINK (1886-1952): David was anointed three times. First, privately at Bethlehem by Samuel, 1 Samuel 16:13. Second, by the men of Judah, 2 Samuel 2:4. Third, by the elders of Israel, 2 Samuel 5:3. Between the first and the third anointings of David, or between Samuel’s consecrating of him to the kingly office, and his actually ascending the throne, there was a period of severe trials.

CHARLES SIMEON (1759-1836): From the forbearance which David manifested during all the persecutions which he experienced from Saul, we can have no doubt that he would have rested satisfied with the government of one tribe, till God in His providence should open the way for the full possession of the throne of Israel. At last, however, a circumstance occurred, which seemed likely to effect the promised union of all the tribes under David.

THE EDITOR: When Abner came to him, David surely thought that God’s time had come, and Abner would be God’s instrument to deliver Israel into his hands. But he did not consult God about Abner’s proposal, and acted entirely on his own carnal reasonings, as he also did regarding Joab. David did not want Abner killed. But God knew exactly what Joab would do.

CHARLES SIMEON: The establishment of David on the throne of Israel was now nearly completed; yet in the very moment of its completion, as it were, was it counteracted by that horrid crime; the influence that was to accomplish the measure was destroyed; and the rival monarch deterred from his purpose. No prospect now remained but that of continued war: and the very counsels of Heaven appear to have been defeated. But God’s counsel shall stand, though the expected instrument of its accomplishment be taken out of the way.

MATTHEW HENRY (1662-1714): When Saul’s son heard that Abner was dead in Hebron, his hands were feeble, and all the Israelites were troubled,” 2 Samuel 4:1. All the strength they ever had was from Abner’s support, and now that he was dead, Ish-bosheth had no spirit left in him. Though Abner had, in a passion, deserted his interest, yet he hoped to make good terms with David; but now even this hope fails him—all the Israelites that adhered to him were troubled and at a loss what to do, whether to proceed in their treaty with David or no.

MATTHEW POOLE (1624-1679): “And Saul’s son had two men that were captains of bands: the name of the one was Baanah, and the name of the other Rechab, the sons of Rimmon a Beerothite, of the children of Benjamin,” 2 Samuel 2:2—men of Ish-bosheth’s own tribe, whom therefore he trusted the more; and this gave them opportunity to execute their wicked design.

THE EDITOR: They “came about the heat of the day to the house of Ish-bosheth, who lay on a bed at noon…and they smote him under the fifth rib: and Rechab and Baanah his brother escaped—they smote him, and slew him, and beheaded him, and took his head, and got them away through the plain all night,” 2 Samuel 4:5-7.

MATTHEW HENRY: And they brought the head of Ish-bosheth unto David to Hebron, and said to the king, Behold the head of Ish-bosheth the son of Saul thine enemy, which sought thy life; and the LORD hath avenged my lord the king this day of Saul, and of his seed,” 2 Samuel 4:8. They aimed at nothing but to make their own fortunes and to get preferment in David’s court.

JOHN TRAPP (1601-1699): To the doing of this villainous act, some think they might have been encouraged by Joab’s impunity.

MATTHEW POOLE: It may seem strange they were not discouraged by David’s punishing of the Amalekite for killing Saul, 1 Samuel 1:13-16; and by his sharp reproof of Joab for murdering Abner; but they thought the first case much differing from theirs, because Saul was anointed king by God; whereas Ish-bosheth was not, but was a mere usurper; regarding Joab’s murder of Abner, they thought David’s sharp words proceeded from policy, rather than from any real dislike of the thing, because David contented himself with words, and Joab did not only go unpunished, but continued in his former place.

ROBERT HAWKER (1753-1827): David’s just detestation of this cruel and unprovoked deed of Rechab and Baanah, could not have been expressed in a stronger manner: “As the LORD liveth, who hath redeemed my soul out of all adversity, When one told me, saying, Behold, Saul is dead, thinking to have brought good tidings, I took hold of him, and slew him in Ziklag, who thought that I would have given him a reward for his tidings: How much more, when wicked men have slain a righteous person in his own house upon his bed? shall I not therefore now require his blood of your hand, and take you away from the earth?” 2 Samuel 4:9-11.

THE EDITOR: Abner and Ish-bosheth were leaders that the house of Saul might rally around for further rebellion. To fully secure Israel to David’s throne, they both must die, but not by David’s hand, less political bitterness spring up as a result of it. God knows the hearts of all men, and the end from the beginning; He knew what Ish-bosheth’s captains would because Joab had escaped retribution; when rulers do not punish criminals, it emboldens others to crime. But this time, David didn’t flinch from his duty, showing himself guiltless not only with words, but by executing the murderers: “they slew them, and cut off their hands and their feet, and hanged them up over the pool in Hebron. But they took the head of Ishbosheth, and buried it in the sepulchre of Abner in Hebron,” 2 Samuel 4:12.

A. W. PINK: Upon the death of Abner and Ish-bosheth, the tribes of Israel were left without a leader.

THE EDITOR: Whatever men do, God is neither hindered, nor delayed. Now His actual appointed time had come for David to receive the kingdom. “Then came all the tribes of Israel to David unto Hebron, and spake, saying, Behold, we are thy bone and thy flesh. Also in time past, when Saul was king over us, thou wast he that leddest out and broughtest in Israel: and the Lord said to thee, Thou shalt feed My people Israel, and thou shalt be a captain over Israel. So all the elders of Israel came to the king to Hebron; and king David made a league with them in Hebron before the Lord: and they anointed David king over Israel,” 2 Samuel 5:1-3.

CHARLES SIMEON: Whatever obstructions arise, God’s purposes shall be accomplished.

MATTHEW HENRY: His thoughts are not as our thoughts, nor His ways as our ways, Isaiah 55:8. He is a better judge than we, what instruments and measures will best serve the purposes of His glory.

THE EDITOR: Even so, it does not excuse David’s failure to punish Joab. Later, David would pay dearly for that.

ALEXANDER WHYTE (1836-1921): It came out afterwards to be a terrible blunder.

MATTHEW HENRY: He ought to have done his duty, and trusted God with the issue. If the law had taken its course against Joab, perhaps the murder of Ishbosheth and others would have been prevented.

 

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